Up to one in five millennials have had anal sex
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Our editorial content is not influenced by any commissions we receive. In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Ah, anal sex! Once the excitement of oral and standard piping wears off, back-door entry becomes the last item an average dude hopes to check off his sexual to-do list. If you've already awkwardly asked her about it, it may seem like she has no interest, but you're just not approaching it properly. Sometimes, women are put off because they never tried it in the right setting or with someone they felt comfortable enough with. Regardless of her reason for holding out, here are a few pointers that will help you infiltrate the elusive derriere.
The Harsh Truth: Why Your Girl Won't Let You In The Back Door
In-depth interviews were conducted with 81 Black MSM ages 20—39 years who were purposively recruited from four townships. The semi-structured interviews addressed sexual behavior and identity, alcohol use, and safer sex. Pain during RAI was brought up by many participants without specific prompting from the interviewer.
I think it's sage to listen to yourself when you say that maybe you don't want to get into something you're both not sure about and are not sure you'll like. If only one partner has any interest in doing an activity, and the other either has none, or is opposed to it, it's generally best to just decline. Starting anal play with penis -to- anus intercourse full-stop isn't the best idea, anyway, on both those counts and more.